Wednesday, August 12, 2009
IF IT'S TUESDAY IT MUST BE TURKEY
Monday, June 29, 2009
SO MUCH TO DO, SO LITTLE TIME
Hope you enjoyed meeting our new friends in the last blogs? We have enjoyed every one of them and more. A few of our friends here want to make it into the blog as well. Two of them are the art students I have lunch with on Mondays and then tutor in English . Their big test was in late June - hope they did well. Renee and I have shared one class. The Freshmen class I had last term she has had this term. It has been good to have these students in common. Many have become friends, especially the boys.
At the beginning of May, Renee went to Nanjing to visit her sister
Melanie. Melanie was in Nanjing because her daughter Lau
rel had given birth to their second child, Victoria Grace. Renee was able to go and visit Chad, Laurel, Melanie, Victoria, and her big brother, William, who is himself just a toddler. What a
great opportunity. Renee got to spend time with Melanie and also hold the baby.
On May 28 was the Dragon Boat Festival. It is celebrated here in China by eating sweet sticky rice wrapped in some sort of greenleaf, not bamboo but like bamboo. We got to eat that, zong zi, several times that day with students and with two families. On our campus, because we
have a lake, they also held dragon boat races. There were 16 boats. The crowds gathered early.
The campus was closed to outsiders, who had to watch from one end of the lake. We could get pretty close to the action and people hooted and cheered. No one seemed to care who won.
Taking part is more important here in China.
We spent the day with friends, and we were able
to feel a part of the Festival. The Festival has
a bit of a strange history. It celebrates a wise civil servant who drowned himself out of sadness for the fate of his kingdom and his inability to help effectively. In the story, the dragon boat
s were sent out to search for his body and people threw zong zi into the lake to feed the fish so they wouldn't feed on him At least, that is one story.
This second semester my secondary project has been to start a men's group. I invited my English Teaching Major boys to meet with me. We met six times this term.
We met and talked about teaching and the role of men in China and America, played ping pong and badminton; watched Rocky and had a good discussion about Phialdelphia, underdogs, and film making, and, of course, we shared a meal together.
The picture is minus Dwayne and Steven, but you can see it was a good group. Renee, not to be outdone, began meeting with a group of girls for lunch on Fridays. The girls come from various backgrounds, but are mostly tied together by Renee's friend Serena. (Rich thinks he is my motivation. Ha!)
Renee and I have both lost weight, but we are not always
sure how that has happened. Many activities these last months have involved eating. 1) Two senior girls visited us and brought the makings for dinner. It was a great meal, and it was interesting to watch them work at prep
aring it for us. 2) Another dumpling adventure took place with our neighbors and friends, Sally and Ji. We spent a morning helping making the dumplings and then shared the feast. The grandmother was the boss
, but we all had our hands in the makings. 3) We have become friends with the local Catholic priest. Wang Fang has said he would visit us and he did. We shared a meal with him and the translator he brought with him f
or fear he would have to speak English. 4) Another group of meals dealt with our class monitors. We both invited them to a dinner. (Now "not to be outdone by Richard did motivate me to eat with my monitors:) We planned our menus, reserved a room, ordered the food, and led a meal. The monitors were suspcious that we could do this, but surprised by our ability to order a good meal and make the arrangeme nts. The night of our dinner, I/Renee was joined by one of our voluntee
r friends from another site. The students definitely enjoyed her beautiful young face.
One last event before the break for summer was a boat outing on our lake. Four of my boys
from HongHe invited us for the outing. On a hot day we boarded a raftlike covered boat and paddled our way around the lake. It was good to get another view of the beautiful campus and fun to share the ride and then dinner with the boys.
Excitement on the ride was provided by another student who was fishing along the lake. When he saw us he stripped down to his underwear and swam out to us. No swimming allowed, of course, but that only added to the excitement. A great time was had by all.
Graduation is a bittersweet time. The term ending, friends leaving. Graduation here means that each department will have a party for its graduates. We were invited to several of these parties P.E., art, music, dance, landscape design. Notice which one were were not invited to? The P.E. celebration provided a formal invitation and a place at the head table with the head teachers. They provided us with flowers as well as all of their teachers. At one of the art celebrations I got to sing "You have a Friend".
I (Renee) had a chance to tutor one of our teacher friends in English for a few weeks. His name is Duan Qiang; he is a vocal teacher and performer. I think I mainly succeeded in encouraging him to open his mo
uth and speak. I don't know that he learned much new info, but he did become more confident. Also, quite by accident, I discovered the efficacy of showing/assigning movies to my classes and
using them as a basis for discussion. When the students have something to talk about, they do much better, especially if they are in a small group. I wanted to help them understand something about the Civil Rights movement in America; I used
The Great Debaters and Remember the Titans, both of which star Denzel Washington. The third movie, on which I based our final exam, was The Miracle Worker, the story of Helen Keller and her teacher, Anne Sullivan. The Chinese students are very sensitive emotionally; that movie wiped them out. Movies are very accessible here online.
Thursday, May 28, 2009
Meet and Greet
This morning Jason joined us to watch the Dragon Boats.
Zen Wei (Heidi) is our counterpart. She is the school contact for us. When we need to know something or do something we are supposed to go through her. You know she has her hands full with us. She on the other hand is supposed to relay all of the school information to us. She will be studying in America this summer. She is a sports woman and we have played tennis. The picture is from the Sports Meerting Day. The teacher with her is "Colin." He taught in one of the rooms after me last semester and observed me. We got to talk and are friends. We often ride the school bus together. He can remind me that my frustrations are small things and the Chinese teachers face them as well - they are just better adjusted. Colin is working on a poetry article for publication. He will be moving as well as us to the new campus sometime this summer.
These two nice looking gentlemen are my CHinese tutors. I meet with Gao Bin (right) on Tuesday mornings. He is from Shandong on the east coast.
This semester I have been having lunch with the same group of students every week. I have gotten to know them pretty well and most of their English has improved accordingly. On Monday I meet with two art students, Wang Wu and Wu Ji Guo. On Wednesday I meet with Janey and Dane, two girls from my Class 6. J
My fifth friend is new. We met about Easter time. She and her group of friends often are in a group which we meet with on Sunday afternoon. It is quite a nice treat to be accepted into a group of young people. Ellen is an English major at Chongqing University of Technology and Vocation here in Yongchuan. Renee and I have enjoyed our conversations and her colloquial Englgish. Through her we have been invited to a wedding party for one of the group members and into several homes. We feel very accepted.

Our lives are full. Tomorow we will have lunch with the Catholic priest. He is nervous and is bringing his friend from the Foreign Language school in town so we can communicate. It will be a good time.
Monday, May 4, 2009
Spotlights
This is our beautiful friend, Serena, posing by a
peach tree in blossom. She will graduate this year and receive a degree in Landscape Design, a perfect major for this lovely place. Then she will go to Nanjing Seminary, where her sister is already a student. She tried to go directly into the graduate school, but the exam was too difficult and instead, she will be admitted as a junior undergraduate. We have shared many precious moments, especially talking about our Best Friend. She often translates for us at the Protestant Church.Here is David, one of my tutors. You saw his picture in the last blog preparing jiao zi. He is a man of many talents, especiall
This is Sally. She is one of the young mom's that we have become acquainted with during the
We call him Shuai Ge, which means handsome. Sally teaches Landscape Design and is back to work after having leave last term. Here "day care" is provided by grandparents. Even if they live far away, the grandmas at least come for many months and provide priceless service. Our friendship with Sally and her family has been made much easier because she is fairly fluent in English. How lucky we are.
Another young woman whose English is quite good is Becky. I'm sorry that we do not have a better picture of her. She is standing next to me in this photo
The girl with the big smile in this picture is Hua Hua. Because of her, I know a few things about Chinese hospitals. When Hua Hua broke her leg last fall and had to spend almost a month in the hospital, I visited her several times. She is a very friendly girl, as you can see, and by the end of her stay, she was on good terms with all the patients and nurses and doctors on the ward. Breaking her leg was a devastating blow to Hua Hua who loves to dance and run and play a variety of sports. She has been very brave and has taught me a lot about perseverance.

Each one of these people, and so many more, bless our lives every day. They encourage us and we try to do the same for them as they face many of the stresses and strains that are common to people everywhere. Sometimes we marvel at their coping strategies. We are learning many things about our own American attitudes about life. In fact, I feel I am getting a better perspective on American culture by living in China. Rich and I both are realizing that we have little patience, and are constantly trying to "move mountains" with grit and determination when we might better try a little "wu wei," doing by not doing. Recently, I have been thinking about the Serenity Prayer -- Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the courage to change the things I can change; and the wisdom to know the difference." Amen
And speaking of mountains, there is mountain building in progress near our apartment. This

And one more interesting thing. Have you seen a leaf like this? It appears to have worms crawling on it, but they are not worms at all. Instead, they are a configuration of the leaf. Do you think it is some sort of protective adaptation?
Sunday, April 12, 2009
ODDS AND ENDS
like planning ahead, are hard to let go of. After her class on Friday morning, Renee went into town with a friend to get the ground meat and other needs.
David, her tutor and friend, agreed to honcho the process. David came early and helped assemble the food stuffs so that they would be ready when the kids came. He called his mother to get advice on the seasonings (boy. was she proud). When the students arrived, we talked a bit and when all were present we began the process of stuffing, folding, and then cooking the dumplings. Everyone loved the task and we laughed at the different styles and rules. You can guess whose dumplings looked worse and most likely fell apart. Dumplings are a good company meal because you also make your own strength of dipping sauce for the dumpling. Those whose tastes run to the spicy could make their sauce as hot as they wished. We made enough for everyone to have more than 20 and they all disappeared. We will do it again with a new group sometime.
our young Peace Corps friends came to visit us. What a treat for us. Jennifer came from Gansu on Friday and spent two nights (17 hour trip each way). It was great to see her. She had not been at the training in January and we feared we would not see her again. It was just like we had not been apart. Jennifer and Renee enjoyed finding a piano and spending an hour or so making it "sing." Unfortunately, they attracted an audience of students much too quickly, but they still had a good time. 
He invited us and some of his classmates to a party. This is the Chinese custom. The birthday boy throws his own party. We had a delicious meal of Duck Soup. The table was filled with small dishes to be added to and eaten from the soup. We ate so much that we did not have dinner that night.
was a confession day but with so many people not everyone got heard. The church was packed and everything took longer, but there was little except the music to indicate it was a special feast day. The Evangelical Church had a shortened service. Then a marathon of over 40 acts took the stage to sing and dance. Much of it was religious but not all. It was sort of a potluck of entertainment and praise rather than food. Many of the participants were "seniors" and from the countryside. Some of them only get to chuch on Christmas and Easter, but not because they would not like to go more often. It is very difficult for them to leave their farms. The congregation, probably the "deacons," if there are such things, cooked and distributed a boxed lunch for the crowd before the end of the show. After eating, the crowd thinned considerably.
Sunday, March 15, 2009
WHAT IS NORMAL?
We also planned to get to the other two major tourist attractions in the area while we had time. Our first was the Chongqing Animal Park. It is only a short bus ride and we go by it many times a week. On our salary, the entrance fee is expensive. We decided to use our travel money to finance the entrance and we bought a season pass. On this first trip we walked around and got up close and personal with some animals. People seem to really like the safari, which is in another part of this massive park. We saved that for another visit. Those of you who looked up Yongchuan have already been introduced to the park. Tourist from all over China arrive here daily.
Sunday, February 15, 2009
CHUN JIE 2009
family joined together and drove to the Jaling River where we sent off Kong Ming Lights, which are miniature hot air balloons made of paper and powered by a candle. They are usually red or gold and about the size of a bushel basket. According to legend, the lights were invented by a general during the wars of the Three Kingdoms as a tactic to light the sky so the army could fight at night. As you can see in the picture, we lit a candle in a paper lantern, and the hot air allowed it to rise into the sky. With it ascended our good wishes and hopes for the new year. This was the day before the eve of the Chinese New Year Spring Festival (Chun Jie).
All the other tasks continue simultaneously because we are making a lot of dumplings. Huge pots of water are bubbling on the burners and the dumplings are brought to a boil three times to prepare them for eating. The eating had to be done in shifts. Renee and I worked on many parts of the making, but wherever we worked, the process was slowed, so we were moved on quickly. The misshapen look of my dumplings (Renee) became a family joke, and now and again someone would hold up a dumpling and say, "I wonder who made this one." But they all tasted great, and we ate and ate and ate.
It is a variety show which intersperses traditional and modern Chinese entertainments. (It looks just like the Friday night entertainments at our school. Obviously, the students steal the format from the professionals.) In our home the show was on but not watched intently. Mostly people talked. The kids got out their musical instruments and played. Time was taken out for group pictures. Every once in awhile something in the show would get our attention such as a feature on the earthquake and a salute to some heroes. It all seemed pretty tame for a new Year's Eve. THEN at about 11:45,
everyone jumped up and wriggled into their coats; we were off to the river again. We were going to set off fireworks. So were the other 500,000 people in Nanchong. It was a harrowing ride through town as rockets flew overhead and bombs burst on both sides of the car, or so it seemed. When we got to our destination, we could hardly see because of the smoke up and down the river and along every side street leading to the river. That did not stop us. A big box of works was set up and lit and a five to ten minute show followed of small but lovely fireworks. Then we each got out our individual rocket firers and
we shot them across the street and toward the river. Sparks and ash and smoke were everywhere. The university president, the foreign guests, the whole family, the grandmother - amazing. And the NOISE. It is said that all this noise scares away evil spirits and ghosts. This is serious noise. Then came the sparklers, big sparklers and firecrackers, big firecrackers. From outer space it had to look like Nanchong was being attacked. Eventually, the celebration ended for us and we were off to bed, lulled into slumber by the sounds of explosions. We woke up to them as well.
Li, married a man with four brothers. All of them love this basketball game. It is fathers vs sons. The sons had won for the first time last year and both the fathers and sons were ready for the grudge match. I was caught between the two as I was to be the referee.
I "let them play" which meant the fathers held, pulled and pushed to stay in the game. The young men groaned and complained vociferously as they ran and scored and won the game anyway. About 13 people played, so there were substitutes. The women folk and some men folk came to watch "the game." There was a score keeper and a timer and the grandmothers cheered. The family that plays together stays together.
with an assortment of cold dishes. Then the main courses came out one at a time. It is a time for eating meat and the young men ate the meat like they had never seen it before. We enjoyed the food and the banter around the table and sometimes the games. At each of these meals there is toasting and drinking - beer, wine, bai jiu, whiskey. It is all lighthearted and sort of controlled, but there is obligatory toasting and pairings of drinkers so.
The culture is a drinking culture so the young men need to be trained. This family setting was a good way to have this happen. In Nanchong the smallest gathering for one of these meals was 14 and the largest was 22. Restaurants do a great business at this time of the year. Every place we went was filled to capacity, but we were never inconvenienced because we were always in a private room. We can't remember if Chinese restaurants in America have that private room option. It is great for small gatherings, a little removed from the hustle and bustle and loud talk of the main restaurant.
The Romance of the Three Kingdoms is one of the classics of Chinese literature - check it out on Youtube. We visited the old city of Langchong with its Confucian temple and examination hall where the civil service exam was given every three years. Did you know that people actually died during those nine day exams? They were very stressful. It was also possible to climb a tower in the old city and look down on the roofs of the hutang
crowded together, side by side. Also, we went to Deng Xiaoping's home. It is close by and there is a beautiful exhibit there about his life. The exhibit doesn't tell what happened from 1969 to 1979 - interesting. People really admire what he was able to do to help make China what it is today. We were there in the morning; by afternoon there were long lines just waiting to get into the grounds.